Kids sit here

Sep 03, 2009

It is amazing how much discussion there are on the forum about kids in a wedding.
Is it that difficult to decide? Let me tell you, it is tough for simple reasons:

1. You want your wedding to be smooth and beautiful, no breakage, no screaming kids.
2. Kids cost almost as much as an adult guest depending on the venue
3. You have nieces and nephews, how can you exclude them from your big day. They are as excited as you are
4. what about the friends' kids that you play with you all the time. They want to be part of your party too

Anyways, it was not a hard call for us, we definitely want kids to be at our wedding, they are our family and will be in our bridal party. We are having a ring bearer, 2 flower girls and 2 page boys ... Johnny Jr, Kaitlyn, Tiffany, Jun Jie, Kenric ... representing family and friends from both of us. Thats a big party.

We also include other kids from close friends ... Sharon, Katherine, Alan, Zack, Shannon, Rhone, Katie, Summer. We want them to have a fun time too, they will be sitted together at the kids table, with the special linen that i bought from the flea market, and where they can mingle and play with the other kids. their parents will be sitted close by to watch them.

There will be kids activity book which i made ... coloring, maze, word puzzle ... making cranes, kids dancing. I think that will keep them occupied throughout the night and not ran around screaming. Fingers crossed!